It's Not You, It's Me.

Something you should know...

I suck at keeping in touch with people. Maybe it's because I never answer my phone (yes, I admit it). I don't know what the reason is. But! If you and I have been friends for more than a while it's most likely because you've been doing all of the work. You know, all of the calls, the voicemails begging me to call you back, the unanswered FB messages? Yeah.

Sorry about that.

I've always sucked at it. Always. If it weren't for FB and Twitter, I wouldn't keep in touch with anyone I went to high school with. All 4 of them.

Kidding.

This especially gets to me when I change jobs. No, I don't change them often, but right now I'm in the middle of a change. Anyway, theres one co-worker (who was my favorite!) that I'll probably never see again. And that makes me sad. She has young kids and lives kinda far away so it'll always be hard for us to get together and hang out. Ya know, because I don't answer my phone and all.

So it makes me sad. Sad that I'm no good at keeping in touch with people.

I hate small talk over the phone. Ugh.

I don't make friends easy to begin with, so you'd think I'd hold those special people close. I don't. I admit it.

Anyway, the point of this is to say thank you to the stalkers  friends who put up with my "friend laziness".

Kim, this means you.

This also goes for you if you're reading.

So do you want to know the secret to getting in touch with me? Chris knows!

Ok fine, here it is.

Text me.

Seriously. That's it. It drives Chris nuts how often people text me. A few of you have figured it out already.

So to any of you who thought you had it all figured out...

 "She hates me!"

"She's ignoring me."

"Maybe she really does take 8975 showers a day."

There's your reason. I have friend laziness, but at least I can admit it.